Why do men really want you to climax?

It's never bad to have a partner who is determined to give you an orgasm. But does a man want you to reach the end because he wants you to feel good, or because he wants you to feel good? If you've asked yourself this question before, what are you doing?

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class= "article-image_ caption-inner">He wants to see your face just to feel good? A new study published in the Journal of Sexual Research finds that for some men, their interest in orgasm does not lie in women's pleasure, but in touching their male selves. & For these men, women's orgasms are actually men who feel good about their masculinity, explaining the study's authors, Sarah B. Chadwick and Sally van Anders of the University of Michigan.

Everything makes sense. No wonder so many women pretend to have an orgasm; they are afraid of hurting their partner's fragile self.

quitarle peso al-asunto. Climax Gif illustrations Climax Cristina ronquillo shared posts (@cristina_ronquillo) at 1:03 p.m. (Pacific Time) on March 21, 2017 Chadwich and van Anders pointed out the really unfortunate part of what they found: It also may mean that some men do not respond to women's feedback on how to improve their sexual skills. Sensitivity, because it may cause men to feel incompetent or lack masculinity. It's very unfortunate that

, considering that giving and receiving feedback can increase the relationship between sexual pleasure and health. We don't mean that men shouldn't be proud of having women orgasm. They should definitely be. (Great, guys!) But maybe it's time for men to shift their attention from themselves to their partners. Men and society as a whole can benefit from an interest in female sexual satisfaction.

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-Irene Mossburg

Irene takes the story of food as her profession. You can find these stories in Food and Wine, Los Angeles Weekly, Serious Diet, KCET, Robb Report and First We Feast.

What do you think?

Does your man seem to care more about his own male achievement than about your sexual pleasure? Do you pretend to have an orgasm to protect a man's feelings?