If there is a common metaphor for long-term love, it is that things in the bedroom will gradually disappear over time. But although you may believe that this is the nature of things, it's a scientifically sound reason for those who have been addicted to desire for a long time to make things hot and heavy: how they view sex
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, the researchers surveyed 1,900 people to find out what they believed could make their sex life satisfactory. Interestingly, when people think that having a good sex life requires positive practice and work, they and their partners are happier in their sex life. Perhaps less surprising, they are more satisfied with their relationships. On the other hand, people who think that their sexual life should be passionate naturally are likely to feel unsatisfied in their sexual life simply because you sleep with your loved ones. The authors of the
study named the above view "Sexual Destiny", while those who believed that they had good sex in long-term relationships were referred to as having a belief in sexual growth.
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Because sex is inseparable from the overall state of the relationship, those who follow the fate of sex feel that sex is a barometer of the relationship as a whole, linking the disharmony in the bedroom with the unhappiness of the relationship as a whole. But when couples with "sexual growth beliefs" experience discomfort between sheets, they don't think it's the same as having problems with their relationship outside the bedroom. In a recent press release, Jessica Maxwell, the lead author of the study, explained: "The need for research-based growth or dependence on fate is so strong that they either maintain healthy relationships or destroy them."
Maxwell also explained that although there is a honeymoon period, about two to three years, with long-term partners, during which couples with high sexual satisfaction, both sides of the sexuality, it began to become unstable. When it comes to believing in the benefits of sexual growth.
&Maxwell explained: "Your sex life is like a garden, which needs watering and nurturing to maintain." So, although you may always feel more like a person of sexual destiny, you may get hints from believers who grow up sexually, which is exactly what the doctor ordered.
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